Melissa - posted on 02/25/2009 ( 11 moms have responded )
Long Story short, Met the "sperm Donor" back in college. Had a Random hook-up with him and got prego. after i told him i was pregnant and keeping the baby he told me he would stand my choice and help out. 4 months went by and no word from him. talked to him for about a week then dissappeared again for another 4 months. pretty much the same pattern for the past year and half. AFter my son was born (by emergency c-section) he didn't show up, or even call for 3 days. He blames me for his constant absense because says I am too difficult to deal with because I refuse to do EVERYTHING he wants me to. Since his pattern of being in and out of our lives for months at a time seems to be consistant, I just recently broke all contact with him because all He ever does is blame me for everything. Am I wrong in doing this, seeing as how he has never made much of an effort in the past? He claims he has rights, and has yet to pay me a cent, or even just be there for my son if not financially, then physically. It saddens me also, because he has a 10 y/o daughter and takes care her.