Julie - posted on 04/27/2009 ( 38 moms have responded )
My daughter is now 18 months old and the love of my life. Her dad has seen her a total of 2 hours and his parents don't even know they are grandparents. i have gone back and forth about child support and if it is really worth the battle and headache. I finally filed for support over a year ago and we just got our first court date. I am worried now that we have a court date that he is going to get upset and want visitation. I don't know if its better to not pursue the support and know that he won't be around or to pursue the support b/c he needsto help with her and worry that he will try and get back at me in taking her.
My mom passed over the summer so I don't really have anyone to bounce ideas off of?
Any help or suggestions would be great