Kim - posted on 04/17/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )
My ex husband and I were married for technically 10 yrs and were separated 3 yrs ago and finally divorced the end of 2011.he moved to north Carolina (9 hrs away). Before that he lived here, didn't really see our daughters now ages 11, 9 and 7. Even now that he's gone he speaks to them once every blue moon.
Their father is supposed to get them for the full summer break but this yr he will only have them for a month. My kids have never been away from me for that long especially that far. It's driving me insane. I don't know how much clothes to pack or what other things I should let them take.now their dad is saying he wants them for the full summer next yr and him and his girlfriend are taking them to Disney. That makes me feel bad bc I want to be the one that takes my kids to Disney. My kids don't even want to stay the whole summer, they want to split it up like now.......guess what I'm asking is how do I cope w/ all of this?