Rosie - posted on 09/17/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
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my kids father does not take responsibility i am doing everything for them infact there is no love and support from him ,i am living as single mom for past 1 yr with my 2 girls ,he has been feeding them that he loves me but he wants to come back so he can get shelter/support for living from me,what shall i say to my kids i dont want to involve them?
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Amanda - posted on 09/30/2012
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My girls father is not involved I have also ben doing it for 3 yrs( their hole lives) he does the same thing to my girls, that you're daughters father does. My girl do love their father but also know mommy is the only one that does everything for them, as I am sure your girls do. If its not a healthy relationship ( fighting ext) between you to just explain to your girls " mommy and daddy love you both very much,and both of us try our best to do, and give you both all you need." I agree about kids knowing my 3 yr old knows her dad makes promise"s he can't keep. No need to state that to them cause it might kick you in the rear in the long run. Keep strong! Us single mother's really are the"super hero's " :)
Rosie - posted on 09/20/2012
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hi ria
thanks for your reply,my elder one is 12 so she understands but younger one is 8 so very inclined towards her dad,she does not want to accept that we are separated and moreover her dad helps her not to accept with definate answer that one day we will be together but i am done with this relation.How do i make my younger one understand ,there are tanturms which are hard to handle
Ria - posted on 09/19/2012
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Hello Rosie, sorry to hear about what's going on (I was in the same boat as you). But it all depends on your kids ages and how mature they are, as to what you should say. Plus, kids now are smart enough to see and know what's going on without you saying a thing,,,,,,,mine did. Plus, they told me some things about their father, that I did not know when we were engaged. Kids now are made up so different than when we were younger.
You and your kids will be fine..............KEEP YOUR HEAD UP ROSIE!!!!!!
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