Siera - posted on 02/15/2010 ( 10 moms have responded )
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OK where do I start? This was definately a valentines day I wont forget..I met up with my sons sisters mother..we decided to be cool for the sake of the kids..since our baby daddy isnt doing for netiher of our kids anymore.. we met up at her house..and then decided to take the kids to there grandfathers house on there dad's side he hadnt seen them in SEVERAL months almost a year for my son and 4 mths for her daughter who is only 6 mths..(smh) ..so we go up there and he is kind of thrown off because he sees we come together but he lets us in and he plays with his grandkids...it was the happiest feeling in my life..that finally someone in his family was paying attention to my son..I've tried and faught so hard to have him recoqnized. But everytime me and him argue everyone else acts like our son and now his newborn daughter is non existent.. so there playing we are all dancing his papa feeds him and everything and here comes the BD...we dont see him at first but my son does and says "hey daddy" he bust through the door and says "why the fuck are yall bitches here get the fuck out now" DAD why the fuck you let these stupid bitches in here after I told your ass about them get them the fuck out..then I turn to my son and I said see that's your deadbeat and he comes to me points in my face and says your the reason the situation is the way it is I said get your hand out of my face so then he tries to hit me his dad pulls him backk.. i take my coat off and i said come on e ur such a man go head hit me..so he tries jumping over the couch to get to me..his dad holds him down in a choke hold it was so pathethic but I cried because my son had to see his dad acting like a monkey out of a zoo..want to know the crazier part? he came with his first daughter (the only one he takes care of) since he is cool with her mother. WE get to the car.. and he starts yelling and screaming.. and puts his hand to my throat.. and his dad says "dont do it that's what she wants you to do" what the hell no I dont..i want him to take care of his kids like he does his oldest daughter.. that's what the hell I want.. i felt betrayed his dad went from welcoming us in and asking us to sit and if we wanted anything to drink to..as soon as the bd comes he says "yall need to leave" he even went to the back and gave javion the rest of his gifts..and was opening one up when the baby daddy came..and just like that we had to leave..I feel he should have made him leave..the grandfather said he had a feeling we knew that "drama" was going to happen..but we DID NOT KNOW..we really did come for the kids to see there PAPA it seems I get a inch ahead and knocked down 10 more times..everyne wants me to press charges..but I dont know what I want to do im so devestated he didnt even acknowledge his son or his daughter.. when i tried to put my son in the car I guess i wasnt moving fast enough and he yanked my hand out the way and slammed the car door...smh im at a lost for words right now
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