Kimberly - posted on 08/04/2011 ( 6 moms have responded )
Hi my name is Kim and im from AZ. I have 2 babies to the same guy. When i was 5 months pregnant with our son he started using meth again....he had done it before we even got together but had quit. I didnt find this out until my son was 6 months old. After finding out he had cheated on me and why he was really leaving for hours at a time i found out that pretty much everything he told me was a lie and that he had been using again. I gave him chance after chance to clean his act up but he just couldnt do it. It was always just constant fighting to the point where it would become physical so finally in nov 2010 i left him and got my own place. We never went through the courts for child custody or support. We had agreed that he would help me out financially with rent diapers or food and he would see the kids every weekend. Well that never happened. Its been a constant battle to just get him to see the kids. I finally decided to file for at least child support last week bc he hadnt been seeing the kids at all.Its been almost a month since ive heard a word from him. I just found out today that he got fired from his job for dropping a dirty ua. What should i do? Is there any way i can get sole custody just on the basis of his drug use? And what about child support with him not having a job now and who knows when he will get one?