Melinda - posted on 06/28/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
Hey All! My question is, What. do you say to your child, when she's already 4, and thinks her father is dead because she never saw him, and probably never will for all he cares. How do you explain this to her? Sometimes I want to say to her, stop dreaming, you will probably never meet him. Sometimes I want to say to her, he's an asshole, he suddenly stopped wanting kids when I told him I was pregnant. But I feel her pain, she misses the idea of having a father.. how do I handle this?