Brittainny - posted on 12/24/2009 ( 20 moms have responded )
My daughter's father is a real 'winner.' When I met him he told me he wasn't married and he had one child a little girl who was 7 at the time. Once I got pregnant, I found out just the opposite. A friend of mine looked him up in the system and told me he is married, and has 3 children by 3 different women.
As of right now, he has not met his daughter. Nia is 7 months old. He has called maybe a few times in the past 7 months He actually didn't even call me until after Nia was about 2 or 3 weeks old. I don't know where he is, and I do not have his number. Every time he calls, his number pops up private. I used to e-mail pictures but I received no reply. I am thinking he doesn't want anything to do with his little girl. It really bothers me because like every woman on here I want my child to have a relationship with her father. He is not even putting up an effort. About a month ago he told me he was going to come out here to Vegas to meet his little girl for the first time. That weekend has come and gone. He never came, and he never called to let me know he wasn't coming. RUDE!!!
So my next step is what? I don't know what to do. I have done nothing so far. I have put him on child support but he has not paid. Christmas is tomorrow and he hasn't bout her a gift. Do you guys think I shoul have him sign his rights away? I want to but then again I don't. I need as much help as possible with everything. Raising a baby by yourself is hard and EXPENSIVE. I am in the Air Force and I am barely making it from paycheck to paycheck....it's getting rough.
Any advice ladies???