Kayla - posted on 07/01/2012 ( 5 moms have responded )
I am 20 years old & although it was unplanned i love my little girl more then anything in the world!! Her father is 31 years old and she is his first child and he still lives with his mom and loves to party it up.He doesnt think she is his, but there is NOBODY else that could be her father, him & only him. So then he keeps saying he wants a DNA test done and i am perfectly ok with that, if he needs some reassurance then go ahead but everytime we have schedule to do it he makes up an excuse and then wants to procratinate. She is already almost 5 months old and i have been trying to make him feel apart but im beginning to think he just doesnt want anything to do with her. It hurts me because i was raised with both parents and i swore to myself that i would try to make sure my children would have both as well, although these days its very rare. I am so tired of stressing about it and i wanna just stop trying but its hard.He pushes me away more and more daily...i just dont understand why he doesnt want to except responsibility...he has had his time to live it up and do whatever he wants, why does he keep running? I thought older guys were the type who would want this, i was proven wrong. I was just wandering if anyone else has or is going through something similiar and why he keeps procrastinating? Reguardless of what he decides to do I WILL be there for her and make sure to give her the best life possible!!!! & thats a promise. Thanks.