Kelli - posted on 11/16/2009 ( 7 moms have responded )
My 5 year old son has never met his father. I am in a 2 year relationship now and we live together. We are making plans to get married and he his the only dad my son has ever known. I have such a hard time watching him discipline my son. The thing is is that when he disciplines it is the same thing I would do. I have told him NO spanking though. I feel he should not lay his hands on my son. I want my son to look at him as his dad and my son has called him dad a couple of times but I have such a hard time giving him that part of control of the relationship. Has anyone else gone through this?