Samantha - posted on 09/07/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
I am now been with my bf for almost 2 months and I will admit when times are great it is amazing but sometimes I feel over-whelmed like I am his personal assistant. He works crazy hrs sometimes 60-80 hrs a week and it sucks, When he comes home all he wants to do is have a cold drink and relax and sleep. I do not blame him my bf is a frack tech.
I do everything I clean,cook and up keep the house and the bills, Now I have a couple job interviews set up and will be working soon. I do not want to stay at home. I do not have children but I would not mind having something to do when he is away, Plus he is in the middle of a divorce and he is paying the lawyer off and from his lawyer advice. Be on her good side till it is final. I hate her texts so bad she always asking for money for this and that saying it is always for the baby. He is a good father and I respect that about him. I even send her money also from our joint account when he is not able to send any. She knows he has moved on and I am with him. I even bought his daughter a couple gifts that I sent today. I just feel over whelmed but right now he is gone for 8 days and this is day one and I just wish he was sleeping next to me tonight :(