Spanking, age and style

Emma - posted on 01/26/2011 ( 133 moms have responded )

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So does anyone spank? What age is "ok" to start? What's better using your hand or a paddle or something else? What age is too old for it? Do you have any special way or routine for it?

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Sandra - posted on 01/06/2014

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how long do you give them a spanking with the cane and how many times? do take the kids over your knees then?

Julia - posted on 02/21/2011

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hand to start with graduating to paddle, strap, cane etc as they get older. No age is too old.
Julia

Sandra - posted on 01/06/2014

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yes, i agree with you! age may differ but after twelve youngsters deserve a real good spanking taking them over the knees and giving them a heavy hand spanking first to warm up the bare bottom to be continued by a wooden cooking spoon or a hair brush or paddle for some ten minutes. this really works fantastic!

Ruth - posted on 03/04/2011

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i started with hand, but now, for teenagers i use the cane with good results...certainly on the bare

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Neha - posted 4 days ago

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Canes r very effective, i cane my girls on naked bum, the caning has to be hard enough to leave sufficient impression.

Robert - posted on 11/28/2016

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Hi my name is Robert Henderson and I am not a parent or not a woman but I want to say something I am reading all of your input and all of you are on point now if there were more parents like woman like y'all kids would have less gun and stuff like that more spankings on their buttocks will lead to less crimes that what we need more spankings because if you want your kids not go to jail then spank them when they need it they never to old to get a spanking use that switch or belt on their bear buttocks no matter if they are male or female or both if they were in trouble at the same time they can be in room at the same time and they can get the spanking in the same room at the same time

Stefanie - posted on 11/12/2016

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My daughters are 14 and 13. For a real spanking i do bare there bottoms and spank them bend over a chair mostly. If they just get a couple of warning swats if we are out then it is on a clothed bottom, i might flip up a dress or skirt

Stephanie - posted on 10/18/2016

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I spank bare bottomed across the knee. Bared from the waist down whilst stood in front of me, then up ended across my lap whilst I sit on their bed. Hand spanked until they have learned a tearful lesson, very infrequently I will use a few smacks with the wooden brush.

Michelle_williams - posted on 10/11/2016

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thank you Samantha. I agree. The switch is a wonderful implement and they both get it in the summer. Up and down the legs they do a lovely dance.

Cathy - posted on 10/09/2016

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Yes, We Spank . We Are Christian And God Says To Do So, PROVERBS:23:13-14. We Start At Age 3 . Hand or wood spoon. Over The Knee Bare Bottom. 3 To 5 Get A 5 Minute. paddle. 7 To 12 Get 10. We Use A Egg Timer And After The Spanking we have them sit in a hard chair bare bottom for 10 minutes . It Is A Punishment. It Builds Creator, Teachers Right And Wrong. This Country Needs More Of The Old Fashion Way.

Samantha - posted on 10/04/2016

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Emily I agree that the switch is most effective and we use it often on Kris.

Emily - posted on 10/02/2016

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a generous switching to the offending appendage, will cure him of his sinful activities. Time tested for generations and mother approved!

Emily - posted on 10/02/2016

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We use a switch quite often, sometimes a cane or a belt. We have found the switch to be the most effective. We apply it liberally from shoulders to knees, both sides. Any corrective marks will fade within a day.

Samantha - posted on 09/28/2016

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I agree spankings must hurt. We use the switch and you can bet that she vocalize every strip.

Samantha - posted on 09/28/2016

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Michelle, have you ever tried using a switch? We use one on our teen daughter. What's great about them is they are always available, she must cut her own while being bare bottom and they sting like a swarm of hornets. If we really want to make an impression on her, we use diaper position. I find it to be the best implement for a naughty teen and we have tried them all.

Michelle_williams - posted on 07/18/2016

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That is so true Colleen. A spanking must hurt to be effective and that means howling and kicking and begging to stop.

I also spank the thighs and sit spots as these are more tender and there is increased vocalisation.

I also place the child in the corner for 10-15 minutes to think about what they have done and to contemplate their spanking. Also if I'm caning I will swish in the air a few times so the naughty girl knows what's coming before putting her in position, bared and then administering the necessary punishment.

Michelle_williams - posted on 07/18/2016

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I also use the cane Neha. My girl is nearly 8. Do you bare their bottoms or do you cane across their knickers?

Theresa - posted on 07/17/2016

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hi Neha my names Theresa ihave a son Michael whos six.when his naughty I spank him.

Sarah - posted on 07/04/2016

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This is very hard to believe. Your adult child texted you and asked you to spank him? Really? If you were to walk up to an adult and punch him in the gut, it would be assault; whether he had clothing on or not. What makes you think it is ok to hit another adult under any circumstance. You had 8 kids and you can't figure this out?

Sarah - posted on 07/04/2016

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He stomps his feet? At 22? Seriously? Striking another adult is assault, whether or not you are related.

Kate - posted on 06/21/2016

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A bit of a red bottomed dance after let's you know that the spanking was quite effective.

Michelle_williams - posted on 06/16/2016

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I agree entirely Colleen. We also bare the bottom and strap or brush it until the bottom is bright red and the child is howling. It is MOST effective. I just have to ask them if they want to go get mummy's hairbrush for an instant change to their behaviour

Colleen - posted on 06/13/2016

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Kathy,

It sounds like you are doing a wonderful job raising your kids to be responsible for their behavior. Kids need lots of love and the occasional meeting with the backside of a wooden hairbrush... on the bare!

My husband and I started spanking early, but it was always with our hand, and age appropriate. Once the kids turned 4, we introduced their bare bottoms to the wooden cooking spoon. The wooden spoon proved to do wonders! It not only changed their behavior lickety-split, it also helped get their lungs ready for singing lessons ;). When the kids turned 8, we upgraded their spankings to the backside of my wooden hairbrush, and again the vocal responses to the spankings went up a few octaves.

Spankings don't work if they don't hurt, so we make sure that they do. There is nothing wrong if a child kicks and screams during their bare bottom spanking. That's what is supposed to happen.

Colleen

Kathy - posted on 06/13/2016

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I started when my kids turned 4. My oldest is almost 12, and I guess I figure out what "too old" is when we get there. I haven't found an age yet that's too old to spank.

As for how, I start by removing pants and underwear, then the child stands in front of me and gets a lecture, bottomless. Then it's over my knee (or diaper position on the bed for my oldest). Spanking is with my hand and a ping-pong paddle.

Dan - posted on 05/08/2016

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Over the years we have found that the hairbrush and the strap are most effective starting around age 7 for both. Prior to age 7, a thin ruler or little piece of leather belt are effective especially when the legs are up in the diaper position.

The diaper position increases the spanking area since it enables the spanks to be applied not only to the hiney but also to the backs of the thighs.

Ev - posted on 04/17/2016

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I read the group name for this place and it says Mom's 4 Discipline and all it is about is spanking. There are other options to that. When kids are old enough to understand what is being said and what they need to do, other options are better. When they are older then you can make punishments or consequences to go with what they are doing. This bare bottom and stripping naked and exposing the red bumm for all to see is only making it worse when the spanking is enough.

And teens are too old to spank.

Katy - posted on 04/17/2016

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my daughter thinks at 13 she grown up and too old for spanking , but with her attitude is proved wrong

Michelle_williams - posted on 04/13/2016

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it's never too late. Bare her or strip her if she's very naughty and then apply a brush or stra p until she is howling and crying. Treat the first cries as the beginning of the spanking and roast that bottom. Then 15-30 minutes in the corner, bottom on display and you will have a good girl.

Repeat as and when required.

Katy - posted on 03/26/2016

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i am similar with my daughter , i tell her to go to her room and wait for me i give it 10 minutes , and i cn imagine her thoughts as she hears me climb the stairs brush in hand

Katy - posted on 03/12/2016

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i really wished i had started earlier it give more stability in their lives

Morten - posted on 03/06/2016

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at our home we started use spanking when the children were 3 and not weared diapers anymore in daytime our style is that they are send to there room while we calm down and disscuss if a spanking is neeed if we decide so we decide who will go and administer the spanking and when the parents enter the room he or she sits on the childs bed with the child on the lap or in front of the parent then they are told what they did and why that is wrong and that because of this they will get a spanking then it is over the lap for the spanking we give either age or double age in smacks depend on what they done when the spanking is over we hug while the child cries and tell them we love them alot

Anthony - posted on 03/05/2016

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I wish my mother had spanked me when aged about 7 for utter laziness

Michelle_williams - posted on 02/28/2016

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Having your knickers or underpants taken down is hard and also embarrassing. But that is why a traditional spanking is so effective.

Michelle_williams - posted on 02/28/2016

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I spank both my children A boy aged 6 and girl aged 7. The spanking takes place in my bedroom and I undress them, either from the waist down or completely.

Usually they bend over my knee and receive either the brush or strap until the bottom is a bright red and lots of tears. Occasionally I use the diaper position, especially with the brush.

We give 15 minutes corner time, with the bottom still bared, so they can reflect on their behaviour before all is forgiven.

Olivia - posted on 02/17/2016

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I do spank my daughter. She is 2. I almost always use my hand to spank her bare bottom, but I have used some implements (but only when she does something really bad).

Ashley - posted on 02/12/2016

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If all other punishments don't work, then you can spank. But only do it for kids like 5-10. Only with your hand.

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