Gemma - posted on 06/01/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )
My ex was violent to me during our 2 year long relationship, he is an alcoholic. We split up and i let him have contact still as i was still manipulated by him and scared of him. He was late for contact, sometimes he was still drunk in the morning, he bragged about selling drugs, threatened me and my family, amongst many other things, of course in court he denied all of this and tried to make me out to be a bad mother and person from the start of our relationship till after.
We have been in court and they have said he can have supervised contact and he has to go on anger management, even though he says accepting to go on this is not an admittance of what he did, i have heard that anger management doesn't really do anything, plus the gf he just hads parents got in contact and told me he was drinking and abusing their daughter that she was pregnant and going to have an abortion, they made her leave him and i tried to use the facebook message in court to show he was still drinking and repeating this pattern of abuse, i was told it was not relevant to the case, but now CAFCASS have been told about this they said they may want to hear about it, but everytime they look at things, they do nothing about it, I'm just scared he is going to get contact and end up hurting my daughter mentally, emotionally or physically eventually, has anyone else been through this.
Sorry quite long, just need some input please.