Felicia - posted on 05/04/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )
My daughter's father was in a very abusive home. Locked in closets , tormented, laughed at while cried, bullied, ignored, mistreated in basically anyway you could mistreat a child. He didn't speak until he was three years old because of all of the vicious things that happened to him and around him. After the separation of the our daughters grandparents, his mother found love again ...a little to quickly after the fact ...and then from going from two parents separating he was introduced to another family figure....his mother's girlfriend. Then the girlfriend's sister and her husband are introduced and turn out to be sexual predators , and prayed on several children in the family. From there starts the story of who he later became, after years and years of constant neglect and abuse he finally runs away and takes himself out of the situation .
Him and his brother were taken away, the mother regained her rights to them both in a year , he refused to return his brother did . Leaving him in a happy foster care family. His father then takes him out ...only to be used and inflicted with more pain.
Both parents were addicts, vicious, sarcastic ,manipulative, and basically plain out sociopaths. The grandfather till this day , has never grown from any of this ...and definatly as for the mother.
As of current he has become both mother and father.He attacked me on so many different levels emotionally, physically[while pregnant and not pregnant] .I finally left our toxic relationship after a year and took our daughter out of the situation before he did something to her out of anger. I am an unwed single 19 year old mother , he is a 24 year old man and almost twice my size. He has destroyed his family on so many different levels but then wants to have a relationship with his child and wants the mother...
to have overnight sleep overs with our child ?
His mother and him have petitioned against me in court him for joint custody her for visitation and I have filed against him for full custody and to have no unsupervised visitation with the mother...
these people are cruel , am I right for keeping my little ray of sunshine protected under these conditions ? She resides with me currently, I need some input.