Sarah - posted on 04/20/2009 ( 14 moms have responded )
My ex and I have been separated since June 2008 and divorced since October 2009. We have a 14 month old son together. He gave me sole custody and he pays a "token" amount of child support per month. His visitation is spotty, but he is supposed to have it every Saturday from 9am-5pm. I am getting ready to take him back to court for modification. He says he is Borderline Personality Disorder. I believe him to be more than that. I believe he is a psychopath/sociopath. I won't go into detail unless someone wants me to. I am concerned that the judge will not take into account his dangerous psychological nature when modifying visitation. My goal in this is to shorten the amount of time he sees him in a day and spread the time out in shorter segments instead. I also want it written in that he would never have overnight visitation and that if something happens to me that he would not get custody of my son. Anyone else either been through this or going through a similar situation now?