Seperated from my baby for Easter

Amber - posted on 04/06/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )

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My ex and I have joint custody. He is taking my son to his girlfriend's family for Easter and will be gone for ten days. He won't even let me talk to him while they're gone. I am heartbroken to be without my baby. How am I going to get through this?

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Amber - posted on 04/11/2009

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I'm staying busy with friends, getting prepared for our next court date, and keeping a journal to my son. I want to thank everyone for their words of encouragement. It has really helped me a lot that other people know what I am going through. Thank you and Happy Easter.

Jane - posted on 04/10/2009

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I'm sorry to hear that you won't be with your baby for Easter. It hurts so much doesn't it? I was in the same boat at Christmas. Just like the other Moms have said, you need to stay busy and if you aren't allowed contact with your child you should contact the court or get legal advice. That's just cruel. Good Luck sweetie.

Beckie - posted on 04/09/2009

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The key word is JOINT custody, therefore, he can't keep you from letting your child talk to you.  Same thing is happening for me this Easter and it is incredibly painful, I know.  The best thing is to get out of the house, take a trip to a friend's house, it is a great time to travel, if you can.  Remember, he loves his mother first, no matter what.

Emily - posted on 04/07/2009

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You know my husband left me for another woman 3 years ago. We have joint custody but only when it suits him.. sometimes I go weeks without a visit and when I try to call theres always an excuse.. It gets easier to manage and I just keep telling myself that when the kids are older they work stuff out and will make their own minds up and they DO remember the bad stuff.. Get some good support around you and try to keep busy during the time when you don't see him...

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