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Who should move?

Rachel - posted on 06/23/2009 ( 1 mom has responded )

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We have a big house that he can afford by himself and the boys know it as home. I am the one who wants a divorce and I cannot afford the house by myself. What I can afford would be a damn shack compared to the house. Since I am the one who wants to divorce, shouldn't I be the one to move? I know that I am better for the boys, but making them stay with me would not be in their best interests. Any suggestions? Even unconventional living arrangements?



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Dania - posted on 07/12/2009

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it is usually the one that has the children stays in the house. you are used to that lifestyle and so the alimony and child support should help with the payment. it is and should be what is best for the kids, regardless of who wants the divorce or why the divorce takes place.

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