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porn addicted, alcoholic, abuser wanting custody

Aubrey - posted on 04/01/2010 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My process just started but my son is 3 months old and me and my husband are getting divorced because of his abuse on me and starting on Keegan both mental and physical he always drinks when around us, then gets so mean when drunk. To top it off he has a porn addiction that has totally consumed his life to the point he put our son in the crib crying while he looks at porn. So I kicked him out but now he filed for divorce but wants joint custody with his 2 alcoholic parents and wants not to pay child support and he gets to choose what's good.for our son. I an sharing my story in short to show others out there maybe dealing with similar things that your not alone. I have a great attorney who is working on getting me full custody with supervised visitation 3 hours a week in my home monitored by a 3rd party. My ex is being very difficult but i will fight for my son and his safety till o die. I would like to hear other peoples stories to keep me motivated. Hopefully mine can motivate you .

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Renee - posted on 06/12/2010

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i feel for you, i know what it is like. ive been fighting for my boys back for 4 years now. my ex husband is an alcholic, abusive and the reason it has got this far is because he lies, and i tell the truth! ive been nothing but honest in court to counsellers and to his family. he lies his way out of anything and unfortuantly, lies are eaiser for people to handle. if i could go back i would of taken the advise i was given.. write EVERYTHING DOWN!!!! at the time there seemed to much and it was to emotional to go over it. all that stuff would of helped me to prove things today though. never in my wildest dreams did i think i wold be going through this 4 years later. write it all down, and stay strong

Julie - posted on 06/09/2010

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My sitation is similar, but my abusing alcoholic ex husband was awarded full custody and I have sold everything of any value to fight for them and now I don't know what to do? If you have any advice please let me know! I miss my babies and this has torn this family apart and my other children also having a hard time with there brother and sister gone!

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