Help!! I feel like I am drugging my child.

Nicole - posted on 02/10/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )

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My son Malik is 8 years old. He is on Vvyanse 40 mg. He was like a zombie this past weekend. He would cry for no reason, hide in closets, our pastor caught him hiding in his office sunday after church. My husband and I took him off of it yesterday and while he was at school he acted up so bad. He stabbed a child with a pencil, was constantly out of his seat and told the teacher he did not have to sit until he was given candy. We got him out early and took him to the dr. They placed him on Stratera at night and continue the vvyanse in the morning. I however feel like I am drugging him instead of helping him. Any ideas?

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Alice - posted on 04/13/2011

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Maybe a new Dr. I think the dose is too high.

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Daytrauna may be a better choice. I caution you to never just take a child off the meds w/o Dr approval. Some of them can have terrible affects on them when you do that. It is possible to cut pills in half but you need to get advice from the Dr. It just sounds like to heavy of a dose.

Nicole - posted on 02/10/2009

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Malik has been going through this for 2 years. We have tried 3 other medications. I feel guilty if I punish him for the things he does because it might be the meds. I just feel lost.

Loreita - posted on 02/10/2009

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Oh Nicole, I am so sorry to read this. I can only imagine how much you are going through. I had some pretty hard times when my daughter was on medication. I was struggling inside. My own little war inside my head. I would ask myself How can I continue giving this stuff to my child knowing that the little personality was disappearing. It is something that no one can ever understand if they have not gone through it. themselves. And then I found out that I was inadvertently poisoning my family. The household products such as shampoo and conditioners, body wash, toothpaste and almost all laundry products and cleaners have ingredients in them that are considered neuro toxins. That means it alters the way our brain functions. And everyone reacts differently to these toxins. Some people react acutely (immediately) and others take years to build up an allergic reaction. I learned all of this from a company that I now endorse. They manufacture over 400 safer, less expensive, more effective wonderful products. I skip 20 aisles at wal-mart now. I know it may sound like I am giving you this info because I would make money, but that is far from the truth. I am telling you about this because I have made it my mission to tell moms about this company because of what it did for my daughter. We removed all these products from walmart and ther stores from our home and replaced it with these products. I started my daughter taking vitamins from them as well. Let me make something clear. The vitamins at the stores are useless. After one week we could see a dramatic difference. In her. I thought there is no way this is the vitamins and so we took her off of them and all her symptoms came back with a vengence. Let me also make sure you understand that she still has issues, but having the toxins out of our home and having her taking vitamins enabled us to take her off those drugs. She started having notes come home from school with positive things, like she was very focused, on task today, worked hard. I thought they had to have had her confused with someone else. LOL Ok this has gotten very long. I can give you all the details you want. I want you to know that there is hope and you can help him. I am not promising you can make him a perfect child, but you can help him be a happier child. My daughter never smiled when she was on her meds and now she is so silly and smiles all the time. She is 10 and has been off meds for 2 1/2 years now. She started meds when she was 5 and was on them for 3 years. I have my little girl back and it means the whole world to me. Contact me direct through my email at loreitah@msn.com. Anyone else is also welcome to write me.



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Jennifer - posted on 02/10/2009

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How long has your son been diagnosed with ADHD? Not all medications work well for each kid. If you think the Vvyanse is making him a zombie, then I would request the doctor to try something else. It took me a long time to realize that I am in the driver's seat. I was the mom that just let the doctor increase the dose and add another medication because "they were the doctor." Every doctor has a different opinion and tends to have a preference for a particular drug. There are plenty of other drugs for ADHD out there and I am sure there is one for your son. I hope this helps. Good luck to you and your son.