Sandy - posted on 07/06/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )
Ok I have 5 children and my 2 girls are not talking to me, one is 32 and the other one is 29. The older one doesn't like the way i raised her (too strict), but she isn't talkingto siblings either, just my twins who are 16, not talking to my other granchildren either and she has one of my granchildren he is 6 I have seen him 3 times. My other daughter thinks I am being disloyal cause I am talking to her sons' (4) father, actually he is a friend of mine and a good father. She has another child by another guy (4 months) and I can't stand him, he is very manipulative and controlling her, as I feel the guy from my other daughter.
I made a choice from the 2nd one cause he was verbally abusive to me and my daughter didn't find a problem with that and actually she has been mean and yelling at me for 6 months, so the choice I made is to not watch my granchildren anymore and to stop speaking with my daughter. She actually isn't talking to the other people who are speaking with him also. I feel bad cause I am not talking to them but they are adults and if they don't want to speak to me, it is what it is. Believe me with the older one I have tried for 3 years to try to get her back into the fold and she says "i am not ready" well, honestly I am tired of walking on eggshells with both of them.