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Do you ever get past the pain????

Christina - posted on 10/11/2010 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I miscarried 9 weeks ago and today I found out that my cousin is expecting. She and her husband are the *most* deserving people of a child...but I still feel like I have been kicked. I don't want someone else's happy moment to be beyond belief sad moment. It doesn't help that I have dreams several times a week about the baby. I am just ready to "move on" with life and be happy again!

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Valerie - posted on 04/24/2011

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thi is a significant loss that you may feel for a long time...these moments are opportunities for you to grieve and i promise that some day the purpose for this life event will become clear to you...think about joining a support or talking with your doctor...i am so sorry for your loss

Dawn - posted on 04/24/2011

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hello christina sorry to hear abot you lost .i lost my daughter in 2001 she passed away i know not the same but fell the same i have dreams about her all the time .and felt bad when my sister got preg and had alittle girl .it is hard and in time you will find a away to cope with it

Shannon - posted on 11/29/2010

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My best friend and I got pregnant together and she lost hers due to a tubal pregnancy. My sons 1st bday was the hardest for her very bitter sweet. It does get easier, you will be able to move on you just have to let yourself grieve. My best friend actually threw my baby shower and was in the delivery room with me and has shared the 14 years of my sons life :)

Nicole - posted on 10/15/2010

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I am so sorry for your loss Christina. There is nothing that can be said or done to take away the pain that you feel, however I hope that knowing that you're not alone helps to dull the ache.

Having someone you care about be expecting is a blessing and a curse after you've suffered a loss. You know just how much they want this baby, just how much they're in love with this little life growing inside.... and yet you know that you want your little one back, and that even though you're happy for them, your feeling a little more than jealous because you should still be sharing those thoughts and feelings... you should still be preparing for your miracle rather than mourning your loss. I hope that you are able to find some peace as the days go on, and that you'll one day soon find a happy place again.

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