Rachel - posted on 01/16/2010 ( 5 moms have responded )
I have a beautiful baby boy born October '08. His biological father is African-Jamaican. My pregnancy was the result of a "last visit" to a boyfriend in JA. Anyway, although we keep in touch, he has little to do with my life. Meanwhile, I met my husband when I was 4 months pregnant. We married when Josiah was 10 months old. My husband is the only father Josiah knows, and we have an adoption court date set. I get the adoption question often, mostly because my husband and myself are white. I want my child to feel secure in his family and know how much he is loved by his father (my husband). It is quite an unusual situation, so I'm wondering if anyone else out there has this unique family dynamic. Thanks!