Mika - posted on 09/28/2009 ( 24 moms have responded )
I love my bf so much he is puerto rican and im white. I have never ever thought of my children being any dif because of race. My oldest is 5 and her dad is white. But recently my ex made a comment basicly stating his child will be a lil sister to my daughter but because mines MEXICAN (which i corrected him and said puerto rican because thats important to my bf) wont be. This is the first time ive ever thought of my child being any dif then me or my daughter. Im not ashamed i love my baby no matter what and i love my man but how do u cope with the stares and talk? Im only 3 months along but i wanna know how everyone else deals with this extremely horrible behavior from ppl? I wanna rase my child to be better than them but i wanna input on how to talk to him or her about it as well when the time comes.