Messina - posted on 03/30/2010 ( 30 moms have responded )
So my daughter is now almost 20 months old and her Jamaican father is MIA in her life. He hasn't seen her since she was 2 weeks old. I tried to get child support from him before but the courts couldn't find him. Well now he is married with another little one on the way. Between the two of them they will have 8 kids. I haven't personally talked to him in over 6 months but his family calls me to check on the baby. I don't know anymore if I should even try to get child support. Maybe my daughter is better off without him in her life. What is your opinion... Should I just give up? By the way I hear that his new wife has a condition of their marriage. He isn't allowed to speak to me anymore even though we have a daughter together.