Amber - posted on 08/19/2011 ( 13 moms have responded )
I'm pregnant newly 6 weeks today and realize I want to keep it. There are a lot of problems me and my so have to work through. His family doesn't for one like me. I'm not african american. I'm bi-racial a quarter spanish the rest is white. But I don't look anything but white really blond with blue eyes and fair skin. Anyway he's talked about how bad it is for bi-racial kids and acts like it's a really bad thing to their kids. I never really cared we're just teens anyway. But he doesn't talk about kids in our future just because of what his family thinks. They dislike me for a numerous amount of reasons. His response to me being pregnant has always been get an abortion. This time though it's not something I really want the thought of mcing made me sad with the fact that my bff is pregnant. I'm 100% sure now. I mean we've been in love been together 4 years we live together and he's the man of my dreams in many ways yet he can't see having kids with me really upsets me even though this wasn't planned I almost feel unworthy. Yet I don't see how I'm going to tell him that despite his family's dislike for me . We're having a child together. Anyone have a similar thing? Like been in an interracial relationship where they'd live with you and even marry you when the time came but not have kids with you? How did you deal with it?