Jennifer - posted on 08/22/2009 ( 113 moms have responded )
Ok well I am new here and from what I have read you ladies seem nice where I can vent and get opions about this issue! So we are due to have a baby girl in Oct when we found out we were having a girl we knew we were naming her Mi'Angel Clemie (maybe another middle name have not decided) Now I am having everyone complain to me this name is to ghetto for a mixed child ARE THEY SERIOUS? It took me a very long time to come up with this name and it has alot of meaning behind it...Now his family really have alot to say about it! Well I will give ya back ground so you understand what I am saying..Sorry if this ends up being long..All started back in Oct of 1999 I lost my first baby with a ex...Which I believe that was gods will so I was not tied to a abusive man for life but non the less a hard thing to deal with...Then me and my husband got together when he was a single father to 4..(there mother passed away in a accident) Our daughter was a newborn so I am all she has ever know...Now we have been married for 5 years and have 6 angel babies..I really had gave up hope on having children...well here we are with this baby and everything has turned out great so we know this baby is the baby God is gonna let stay here with us...And we are due Oct 9th 2009 10 years after my first lost baby..So to us she is our Angel baby...Now what upset me most about this is people dont even have nothin to do with our family..His mother has seen these kids 4 times in 6 years...And only lives 20 mins away...No one has ever said anything to him about our other kids names...And I am so not trying to be rude but my husbands name is Antwain...How is Mi'Angel any different...I think for his fam is more that my moms name is Angel so they dont like that..Well I am namin her after his grandmother with Clemie who raised him so why is this such a big deal..But it is not just his family others have said stuff I mean is it realy that bad of a name...I dont understand why people are taking so much behind my back about it...:( Again sorry this is so long...Just really bothering me...