KRISSY - posted on 10/20/2009 ( 17 moms have responded )
My son is 9months old and I am raising him on my own. Sure he gives me a check once in a while and sees him maybe 3 times a month.. I just want to make sure my son doesnt end up like his dad. His dad and I were only together for a very short time before I got PG.. He told me he was fixed and I was dumb enuf to believe him and stupid enough not to make sure.. In the end I got the greatest gift ever but still. When I told him I was PG he pretty much told me I had to have been cheating and that he can't have kids. blah blah blah.. so I went the whole pregnancy by myself went to all my appts by myself.. which sucked at the special ones.. anyways.. He didnt see his son for the first time other than on my Yahoo til he was 3 months old when we met to do a DNA test.. Waste of money and I told him I was right.. but he had to know for sure I guess.. The he started saying that there is something wrong with him cuz he paid a lot of money to make sure he couldnt have anymore.. bunch of BS... He does have 4 other kids, one of which I knew about previous then learned of the others doing a search online of court records. I have since met one of his daughters. Her mom actually works with my aunt . She had been talking about this guy at work one day and my aunt thought he sounded familiar so she asked who she was talking about.. sure enough same freaking guy!!! well now that I have gotten off course with this topic , I am just wondering is there anything special I should make sure he knows, learns about the african american part of him? Im new to this site so i wont write as much next time.. hopefully..