Aysha - posted on 07/03/2009 ( no moms have responded yet )
I am just here to ask if there are other muthers out there Married to a Pakistani, but seems like they are never around, or may be you have the opposite and they will never give you space... If your like me and seem like your a single muther, let me know.... He was the most wonderful father just before he send us to UK. We had to come back due to Medical reasons, and found out he was gone back to USA, and He hasnt got word to us since. So I dont know but I believe that GOD had, given this man just to Marry so I can have a baby..... that I am not regreting, but am regreting the lose of the one man I found myself and loved more than any other. Thanks GOD!! Allhumdolillah!!!
But with the time away, I am wondering if there is anyone that can help me get past the fact that he cold be in the USA, making another family. As a Muslim Man its oka, but it still hurts the struggles without him. When, when he was helping he was great, and I had great rest, you know like the way the father/husband is to be. Some say he was like that, just because he knew that I was leaving soon.... that lasted the whole two weeks, before leaving to sister n laws......
Any advise on how to keep a mind on baby, more, and less on if she will ever see her father again? I am just lost to knowing how a man, can produce, and just forget of the creature GOD gave to him, you know.....