Need Advice please?

Andriea - posted on 05/13/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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Someone help please. This is the situation, My son is 30months and my best mates son is 7 this year and a total bratt, my lo adores him follows him everywhere and copies everything he does but the 7yr old is so bratty, he is rude, aggresive and just unpleasant, he will boss my son around, throw massive temper tantrams and will even lash out at my boy or his mum. I enjoy spending time with my friend but can't stand her son. No idea what to do. He will also miss behave at my hose as well incl going in my fridge and jumping all over my furniture. Please help!

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Michelle - posted on 05/20/2012

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I would talk to your friend about it, but don't put the blame on her or her kid, because she would likely take offence and not hear anything you say. Maybe you could sit down with her and explain that your child is also acting up and ask her what you should do about it, or talk to her about helping each other. It is a very delicate situation to be in, but truly, she is doing him more harm than good, I mean if he's like this now, how will he be in a few years? And if your boy really looks up to him, he will try to act just like him. I hope you can get this resolved with your friendship intact, good luck hun.