Kristy - posted on 02/05/2009 ( 3 moms have responded )
I have to say that I have a love/hate relationship with my boyfriend's job.
how proud I am of him and the job that he does.
the extended family
knowing that someone always has his back
knowing that if something happens to him, a cruiser will be at my home to wisk me and my son off to the hospital
hearing some of the stories
wondering who he is going to be married to...me or his job
worrying (although admittedly I do less now that in the beginning as I have learned that it doesn't help anything
that he feels like he can't tell me everything
Even though I have listed more "LOVEs", at times it seems as if the "HATEs" outweigh them. I try to be understanding, but at times, it is very hard. There have been many days that my job, my feelings and our family have taken a back seat. I am wondering if any of you share these feelings or if my viewpoint is unfair. I would really love to hear any thoughts on this.