21 year old moved back home extremely disresectful

User - posted on 05/09/2017 ( 1 mom has responded )

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Im hurting beyond words. I raised my daughter in a christian home with morals and values especially respecting her elders.
She made some shocking poor choices that has landed her where she is today. With a boyfriend of 3.5 years no job, no licence, smokes pot his not changed since weve meet him. Shes lost her licence due to not paying fines now lost her job. Shes in huge amount of debt we told she can move home rent free, free food but she needs to start looking for work close to home to start paying off her debts shes done nothing towards bettering herself. She speaks to me and my husband so disrepectful calling us f###ing pyschos and how much we dont care for her and how she hates is. She states she feels she lives in a prision which ive made clear this isnt so. She cobstantly swears at us and screams. Everything is our fault. I just cant seem to cooe with this. We are trying to help her but shes breaking me. I feel im suffering anxiety im now snappy and my husband and my teenage boys. I dont know what to do anymore. My heart is breaking.

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Sarah - posted on 05/10/2017

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Time to get tough and tell her to either meet the expectations you gave her when she moved in- or she has to move out. Sometimes we are cruel to the one we love and deep down know are right. She's 21, you did your job. You offered to help her if she'd help herself, so now you really have to just let her grow up and figure things out for herself.

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