Louise - posted on 11/04/2011 ( 3 moms have responded )
We had twins and we had planned to adopt our 3rd child, but now I'm pregnant and worried my husband will think I got pregnant on purpose. I really wanted to have a third child, but my husband was against it. I asked him if he would consider adoption and he agreed. His main reason for not wanting to get pregnant again was that there are already too many people in the world. So I began research on adoption and we planned to adopt in another year. I had been keeping track of when I was ovulating, but we were traveling and went to a party and drank and one thing led to another. I should have told him no and said that it was too close to when I was supposed to ovulate. I am worried that he is going to think I got pregnant on purpose and that he will hold it against me the rest of our lives. How should I tell him?