Very Clingy Toddler... Need Advice?

Nancy - posted on 07/08/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )

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I am a stay at home mom to two girls a 2 yr old and a 9 mos. old. My 2 year old is extremely clingy to me to the point that it is hard for her to just leave me. She is a sensitive girl and I am very patient and understanding with her. I understand that staying home with her contributes to this but at the same time I am really concerned about her separation anxiety and want to encourage her to be more independent. Before her sister came into the picture she was not as clingy but now she is and I do understand a part of it is b/c of having a new sibling and jealousy but I can't even just drop her off at her Sunday School class and leave her alone without her crying, screaming, and acting like I've abandoned her! I am going to have her start preschool part time to get used to being independent and not always with mommy but I am extremely worried about her severe separation anxiety affecting her preschool experience. Any moms out there have any advice on dealing with an over clingy toddler girl? Thanks!

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Jessica - posted on 10/11/2012

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The only thing I can really say is, you'll have to be patient. She went from having you all to herself, to having to share. As far as the preschool, you might have to be prepared to stick around for a few days to see how she'll do? But don't be upset if she forgets all about you w/ the prospect of new friends her age.

Giving her time to adjust to her new position as 'Big Sister' is one of the best things you can do for her. Finding new ways for her to help out around the house might also help to bolster her self confidence. Help her find new ways to be a little independant.

I went through a lot of insecurities after I had DD2. My 'Big Girl' no longer wanted to be a 'Big Girl' anymore, cause mommy was having to devote a lot of time to baby sister. Spending atleast a few mins alone time every day w/ just her will help as well.

I hope that your family is able to settle and adjust comfortably to their new roles fairly quickly.

Lots of Love to you Mom, and God Bless!