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How do u deal???

Tina - posted on 08/17/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )

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with a man whom seems to think that everything that my son does is cause he's being disobedient he has no patience and says that he is just here for me....... my son is autistic and has a hard time going to sleep me man thinks that he does this on purpose and yells and screams at him he repeats him self a lot and my man thinks that my son is doing this one purpose what do i say or do any advise out there i love this guy lots but i don't think that his attitude towards my son is right also he told me that if my son didn't sleep right he was going to put him in a nursing home................HELL NO ON THAT ONE my son is no leaving me unless he is able to care for himself. PLEASE help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Crystal - posted on 06/07/2012

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Can you say hit the road jack. Thats where he needs to be. That ain't a man but a child. You need to do what best for your son. Yes that will be hard on you but what will you fill like if he ever hurts your son. As it is his yelling like that is hurting him on the inside.

Tammy - posted on 08/31/2011

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Obviously you love your son, and the situation worries you. How does this man treat your other children ? Not sure how long you have been with this man, but he needs to realize that you and your son are a package deal. Educating him may help, but the things he is saying about your son are not okay! Do you really want to be with someone like that? Not everyone is able to deal with children who have special needs. Sad, but true and if that is the case here you won't be able to change things.

Tina - posted on 08/26/2011

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Thank you for ur suggestion I sometimes don't use my brain lol I had to get info why am I not do the same for him.......wow

Seija - posted on 08/23/2011

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i don't want to sound negative, but are you sure this is the right man for you? If you are he needs education on exactly what autism is and how if affects you and your son. I don't know what else to suggest but maybe your doctor could give you some information for him. I pray you get some resolution on this situation soon. Good Luck

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