Tania - posted on 02/24/2010 ( 11 moms have responded )
If you had a righ risk or very difficult pregnacy, even if you knew you would most likely having a preemie...did it bother you when people with healthy babies and normal pregnancies compaired themselves to you? I was high risk, being a type 1 diabetic with a kidney transplant. I spent the last month of my pregnancy in the hospital. Everyday was a struggle and I nerver knew when I woke up in the morning if that was the day my son would be born.
It use to drive my crazy when friends and family would come visit and they would talk about their pregnancies and compair mine to theirs. I was even told that at least I wouldn't have to be over due.
Even now that my son is 4 months old comments bother me and I know they don't really mean to be thoughtless.
How do you deal with this?