Dominic - posted on 01/31/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )
hello ladies i need alittle help. my husband has many problems which include PTSD and TBI. i know it might come out sounding bad but its the only way i can say it. i just think that he is playing the card alittle too much. i mean i understand playing the card with his docs but to me? really? he doesn help out at all. i mean his siter told me that he was a neat frak back when he was younger and now.... like hes the master of disaster. he always is sleeping and always is hurting. i mean when he tells me that he is gonna take a nap i dont say anything and when i do he right away jumps on me. i mean what about me i need a nap too. i take care of the baby and the 2dogs o yeah and him. when he sick he sleeps. hes in the WTU so he dont really go to work. his work is appt THATS ALL! he sleeps until i dont know when and when he wakes up its time for me to go to bed. i mean i have been told by him and others to take a nap when the baby takes a nap but if that was the case i wouldnt be able to see the floor in our house. befor we were married i was able to talk to hi about ANYTHING. and i do mean anything and now... heaven forbid i talk to himabout helping me make a grocery list or doing the dishes. i tried asking him numerous times to go to marraige counseling with me and hes tld me NO. so i go to a couselor by my self. and i dont think there will be enough sessions to say what i gotta say. o yeah not to mention im not from around here and i have no one to talk to. so i ask what now?