Tara - posted on 08/19/2009 ( 60 moms have responded )
Let me start by saying I am a mother of 5. My children are 13(D), 10(D),6(S),3(S),8month old (S).
My 13 year daughter looks extremly older she is 5'11' and has the chest of a 20 yr old. So the kids her age have a problem with her and treat her like she is odd. Anyway back to the problem she will ask to do something and I tell her no she get's angry and says "yea of course not why would I be able to you just hate me." I tell her I don't hate you I love you. Then she starts throwing a fit in front of the other kids and on occation hits me. I'm not sure if some of her behavior comes from the kids at school making fun of her for being so much biggier then them or why she always seems so angry with me. I tell her all the time she is my first born and I know nothing about a teen. Growing up I never had any siblings. I'm doing my best. I felt so bad that I took her to the doctor to see what I could do she told me to read some books. What the heck is a book going to do???
I just don't know what to do. If anyone has an advise please let me know.