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my daughter started dating a boy when he left for college and didnt tell me for 6 weeks. he had a mental breakdown at school and was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. two weeks later he broke up with her telling her she made him unhappy. when she asked to talk about it, he told her she was looking for a reason to be hysterical and was incredibly mean. a week later he came back and wanted to date. i told her that in the best interest of his health, they shouldnt date. when she told him, he said he hated her, called me names and said that she was choosing sides. he sent me a text in the middle of the night saying how bad i was. I told him to stay away from my family. now they are talking again, (just as he leaving for college) and my daughter cant understand that he will never be better and how disrespectful he is to her and me. when they talk, he makes outrageous comments about me. she told him that when she moves out they can continue. i am really concerned about her and her evident lack of self respect. how do i get her out of this?