Ally - posted on 08/10/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
Two teenage boys I have raised by myself now decide they want a relationship with their father. His rights were terminated over 11 years ago and has not paid over $150.00 in child support. The father contacted my oldest son on facebook, now wants to see and live with him. I know I cannot force the boys to stay away from him as much as I would like to. The father has a history of violence and a criminal record to show for it. I am just at a loss as to what to do in this situation. My boys blame me for terminating their fathers rights and "keeping" him from them. I have pleaded my case as to why the rights were terminated and that it has always been in their best interest to protect them and myself. Now that they are older, they are capable of making their own decision on this. Advise??