Jenny - posted on 08/30/2012 ( 16 moms have responded )
I am a single mom of 2 teenage girls, 16 and 12. I work when they are at school and twice a week i work late as a waitress. I have had the sex talk with both of them and i have tried to instill good morals and self respect. i pretty sure my youngest is still very niave (thankfully), i question now if my oldest is sexually active. anyways they have seperate rooms and last night i walked in on my 16 yr old daughter playing with a..sex toy, while watching what i would describe as very hardcore porn. i was disgusted by what she was watching. i composed myself quickly and left the room, i didnt yell at her, i was too shocked and i'm sure she was just as emberassed as i was. it was already late and we couldnt speak this morning because her sister was around. they are at school now and i just got done snooping through my oldest's laptop. she must have thought i didnt know her password because the history goes back very far, and is even more disgusting. I'm very afriad for her, masterbation is natural and if she was watching something...normal, i would have probably laughed and thought little of it. but that was sadly not the case(i dont want to say specific topics on here) and i fear she has no respect for herself as a woman or even a human. I'm afriad if she is watching this stuff that maybe she is doing this too. some of this is degrading, humiliating, and even dangerous. then i went through more of her computer and found internet coversations she saved from this web site called omegle, and these fantasies and role-playing she has done online is just as bad as the rest.
i have no idea what to do, what to say to her, please help, comment back or message me if you want more details. i fear that she may soon or may already be partaking in these horrific acts. and even if she's not wanting to actually do this, i still think something has gone wrong with my baby.