Moniek - posted on 03/26/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
My step son is 14 (almost 15) and I am just not sure how to handle this situation. Issue is he snuck out of the house in the middle of the night and snuck into his girlfriends house. He was grounded for 2 weeks no phone, facebook or contact of any kind with his girlfriend. He will not follow any restrictions, he created a new facebook account so he could talk to her and lies over and over. I just learned he has snuck out two more times. He has not even gone 2 full days following the restriction, I dont feel that it is an over the top punishment! This has been going on for 2 week now, had he just followed the restrictions set he would be done now. I am tired of the lies and the fighting but I feel like if I let him off the hook I am sending the message that he gets his way if he fights hard enough.