Allyson - posted on 04/06/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
How do you deal with not only a 14 year old who sneaks around and lies to you, but with your anger at the same child? Last Wednesday, I caught her with a boy in the house (he is old enough to drive and has a car). I kicked him out and proceeded to go off on her for a couple of hours. I then found out that she had established a new email account (after I shut down her Facebook and old gmail account) and registered for a social website called "Tagged". She messaged many boys, most out of state, and had even posted a picture of herself in a bikini. Most of the messages were from boys who told her that she was "smoking hot" and asked her to have sex. Luckily, her dad and stepmom took her to Florida for Spring Break (spur-of-the-moment) to get her away from me. I was angry enough that I almost hit her - totally losing my cool. I am still so angry, and now that has morphed into sadness. The worst part is the horrible feeling I have because I am glad that she is gone, because I cannot look at her or talk to her.