Debbie - posted on 05/04/2011 ( 13 moms have responded )
I am going through a very horrible and messy divorce at the moment been a year already and we busy moving to a Townhouse. I have 2 girls 11 and 14 year olds. My 14 year old daughter is giving me utter hell its unbearable living with her at the moment. She screams and shouts and bangs the furniture. My kids dont see their dad at all his on drugs they refuse to see him because they fear him from all the domestic violence he caused when he lived with us. She constantly gets into trouble at school with the teachers she has physical fights with the girls at school, i have to go and bail her out all the time. she failed her first term at school, i removed her cell phone and said if her marks improve she can have it back. I love her with all my heart i tell both my kids that all the time. I have had so many meetings with both my kids school psycologist and with our church. I have my family and friends talk to both of them my little girl is learning all the bad her sister is doing, i try to take both my kids out even if i dont have the money just so they can get out of the house for a while. On monday i spent the day packing my house up with the help of my 11 year old, i was so exhausted. The older one just sat and watched not helped with nothing. She had this horrific argument with me in the everning i ended up in hospital because i had trouble breathing i needed oxygen.I want my kids to be happy again. I dont know what else to do im very desperate. PLEASE HELP.