I think my teenage son is masturbating too much

Army_Mom - posted on 07/08/2012 ( 24 moms have responded )

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When it comes to teenage boys and masturbation, it is given that at some point during puberty all of them figure out that there penis does something else other than just peeing.

This week I had a conversation with my son about it because I wanted to know if he knew what it was all about, and he actually told me he does it 4-5 times a day!

That seems like a lot of times to me. Could he actually be needing to do it that many times a day, or is his body just producing too much sperm?

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Nicole - posted on 11/23/2012

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As the mother of a 13 year old boy, I do consider that much masturbation excessive. I believe it may deaden your son's healthy interest in other activities, including meeting and socializing with girls. I had the same problem with my son. It seemed that whenever I walked into his room he was busy at it. He always tried to hide it as quickly as he could but it was obvious what he was doing. I cautioned him he was doing it too often, but he continued anyhow. Finally, one day when I discovered him once again masturbating (and I was in an angry mood from work, which I admit didn't enhance my judgment!), I Made him pull back his blanket, look at his magazine and finish the act while I leaned against the door and watched. He was totally humiliated. It may not be the best way to handle the matter, but it does seem to have worked!

Shawnn - posted on 01/30/2014

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Nicole, I'm surprised your son did not turn you in for child sexual abuse. That was MORE than the wrong way to handle it...Did you get your rocks off too?

Janice - posted on 11/27/2012

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One of my sons had a urethra issue that we did not know earlier, and it made the complete process a multiple times a day issue, and also that he produced so much semen the emptying of it was not fulfilled in one or two sessions. After seeing the Dr and having the issue somewhat resolved, he still masturbates quite a bit , but not because of a problem, but because he enjoys the process.

Alfred - posted on 10/31/2012

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Boys Masturbate, Men Masturbate even when they are married.. It is normal for a teen boy to masturbate alot... as long as he is doing it in private and meeting his other obligations, school. etc.. he is fine..



When I was 15 I use to masturbate about 3 to 4 times a day and even now as a married man, I enjoy masturbating and having solo time.

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Susan - posted on 08/19/2014

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Yes indeed This is totally normal My son (14) has a hard up several several times a day and jerks off qiute regularly. It will wear off with time I do not worry nor should you

Maleiteira - posted on 08/08/2014

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By some reason i add last sentence .... but seriously talking the good Doctor Kellog - Doctor in medicine and famouse by his corn flakes - was talking it seriously that precise way... by the way he also think in the flakes as a preventive food lol... (of course without shugar to not have good taste that was his brother addiction to improve the businesse)

Seriously talking nowdays certenly not as punishmente!!!

Calen - posted on 08/08/2014

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Maleiteira Maleiteirax - I seriously doubt there is need for corporal punishment. Masturbation is totally normal and should not be handled in the way you are describing. This makes me sick to my stomach. I sincerely hope you posted this as some kind of sarcastic joke albeit a disturbing one. If not well...God have mercy

Maleiteira - posted on 08/08/2014

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CIRCUMCISION.

Is the answer, a tight one with frenulum removed!


Doctor J H Kellog:

“ A remedy which is almost always successful [...] is circumcision... The operation should be performed by a surgeon without administering an anesthetic, as the brief pain attending the operation will have a salutary effect upon the mind, especially if it be connected with the idea of punishment, as it may well be in some cases. The soreness which continues for several weeks interrupts the practice, and if it had not previously become too firmly fixed, it may be forgotten and not resumed. ”

if circumcision not considered than:

“ a method of treatment [to prevent masturbation] ... consists in the application of one or more silver sutures in such a way as to prevent erection. The prepuce, or foreskin, is drawn forward over the glans, and the needle to which the wire is attached is passed through from one side to the other. After drawing the wire through, the ends are twisted together, and cut off close. It is now impossible for an erection to occur, and the slight irritation thus produced acts as a most powerful means of overcoming the disposition to resort to the practice ”



Or ... alow the situation remain "untreated"...

Georgina - posted on 08/08/2014

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Wow. Just...wow. You should be ashamed of yourself. It's "mothers" (and I use that term loosely) such as yourself which make my job so much more difficult (Child Abuse and Sex Offences - policing).
What a horrible little selfish woman you are. God I pity your future daughter-in-law, or male partner. Hopefully no damage has been done by your 'punishment'. Those who work within child abuse have words for so-called "mothers" like you, but I'm not going to repeat them here.

Nick - posted on 02/24/2014

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Has he just started? A lot of boys do it excessively when they start but decrease later on

Sarah - posted on 01/25/2014

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Well, many boys go through this stage in there life. Maybe you should talk to your son. So It doesn't become a normal thing for your son. As long as he doesn't loose focus on his priorities he will be fine.

Chris - posted on 11/23/2012

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The only wayof someone wacking there dick too much, is if they penis is getting sore

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My 14 yr son masturbates constantly. It is normal. I enjoy it why wouldn't they.

Shawnn - posted on 07/10/2012

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Army Mom: I did read before I commented, tyvm.

My opinion is that you asking your son about masturbation is creepy. I didn't have to ask mine, the evidence was pretty obvious. That's all I'm saying. My apologies if you don't like my opinion, but, after all, this is an internet forum. You're bound to read something you don't like along the way.

Take it with a grain of salt, is what I do, and move on. ;-)

Besides that, if you are concerned that it could cause issues, consult a urologist. The affected area is the urethra, and the more constant constriction could cause problems in extreme cases, as I said in my earlier post as well.

Cheers! :-)

Elizabeth - posted on 07/09/2012

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A few things, normally the female sex drive is nothing like a male"s. So don't concern yourself. Boys are one huge sex hormone, they eat, sleep and breathe sex. Its in the DNA. I have three sons. Two are eighteen and one is 15. I even helped raised my nephew for a bit who is n ow 29. Four or five times a day is alot, but, I would rather them play with themselves then someone's daughter. As long as he doesn't injure himself, which is unlikely, you can be assured of two things, one he wont be getting anyone pregnant and two, STDs are not an issue,



Just make sure he cleans up after himself, and keeps it private.

Shawnn - posted on 07/09/2012

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Look at it this way...at least you're not a grandmother.

If you're concerned, ask a urologist if the constant constriction could be something that would affect his bladder on down the line, but otherwise, it's kind of creepy that you wanted to know HOW OFTEN your son plays with himself...

Brittney - posted on 07/08/2012

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When I met my (now husband) at 18, we would have sex up to 6 times a day and he would still find time to masturbate. Its completely normal, but over the past few years he only does it a few times a week if even that and we don't have nearly as much sex as we used to. I say your son is young and has a lot of hormones running through his body, as he gets older, it will slow down.

Denikka - posted on 07/08/2012

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My hubby used to be like that too. I met him when he was 19 and even at that point, and with having sex regularly, he was still masturbating at least 4-6 times a day. He's mellowed a lot in the past year or so. I think it's a normal thing. The hormones and whatnot are running rampant.
Not to mention that masturbation is a stress reliever.
I don't think it's a *need* necessarily, but I wouldn't be concerned about how frequently (or not) he does it unless he starts choosing inappropriate times and places. As long as he's doing it in a healthy manner, there's nothing wrong with it at all :)

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