Is it normal for your teenage son to take your under garments for masturbation

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Hope - posted on 01/31/2017

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I wouldn't over dramatize this situation. I would bet more teen boys do this than people realize. Kids are curious about everything at that age. My son did it for a couple years that I know of. He was 12 when I first discovered a pair of my favorite panties under his mattress. I sat him down and told him it wasn't right to take things that are not his. I told him I wasn't angry and I made a deal with him. There 2 conditions. First, he was not to take my clean ones from my drawer. Second, he was to put them back in the dirty clothes when he was finished. In exchange, I would place the pair I wore that day under his pillow every night after I got home from work. No harm, no foul.

Just curious if any other moms do this Panty Exchange Program.

Candice - posted on 08/26/2017

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All I know is I would rather my son use mine than his sister's. I'm not sure she would be as understanding and even worse, might tell her friends who wold then tell everyone else and there's no need to embarrass him for doing what boys do.

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OMG, yes, my almost 12 year old son has had an on and off again thing with mine or his sister's under garments since he was a toddler. I have a son, nephews, a husband, friends with boys. Everyone of them with pantie experiences as kids. It's normal. So is masturbation which our family views as almost essential to being human. I agree with you Hope and Sarah, nothing to worry about.

Sarah - posted on 02/10/2017

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Hope Burke, I think that is great.
I have heard of it a few times before. Masturbation is good and healthy and should not be discouraged as something negative, definitely have boundaries set. My own son is also 12, I have told him he is welcome to cum in his own underpants, but to respect his sisters and mine. At the moment not shown an interest in wanking into mine or theirs.

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Funny, Hope. This is exactly what I suggested to another mom in some correspondence today! Great minds!! LOL

I love cumming in my panties sometimes and leaving those ones under my son's pillow.

Julie - posted on 07/27/2017

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I have caught my husband doing this a few times,loves my nylons and socks

Jeri - posted on 06/22/2017

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Sarah I guess my issue is more that parents should not get down on them for masturbating, you will do more damage by making them feel guilty over pleasuring themselves than if you are actually being supportive of it. While yes him using her actual panties might not be right but like another mom said she actually gives him a clean pair for his own use to keep in his room so he is not taking hers and using it.

Sarah - posted on 06/22/2017

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Again, while I agree masturbating is normal; it is not ok to invade a family members living space and use her personal items for said act. That is just healthy boundaries.

Jeri - posted on 06/22/2017

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I dont think it is a big deal as long as he is not actually taking them cumming in them , then sticking them back in your clean clothes drawer. If he is just holding them as he is masturbating who cares. People need to really understand how it is being a teenager, the last thing they want is for you to get down on them for really doing what is natural.

Sarah - posted on 03/10/2017

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While I agree that masturbation is normal and healthy, I do not agree that it is normal or OK for a child to take personal items from his female family members. It is important to teach your children respect for boundaries. Also, handling another person's dirty undies is truly unhygienic.

Jk - posted on 02/02/2017

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Tonya,
No, it is not right for your teen age son to do that. However, unfortunately, as already written there is probably more teens than we really realize that do this sort of thing. Communication is an extremely difficult between parent/s and teenagers, but it is of the utmost importance to try to talk and set good examples for our kids in their teenage years.You could say the teenage years are like going through the toddlers years a second time around. They are trying to learn how to become an adult. If we ignore and let them do foolish things such as this, what are we teaching our teenagers? Consider this;" What kind of adult do you want your son to become?" How can you best help your son be the best "him" he can be?

Mama - posted on 11/14/2015

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I would say not normal Tonya. But kids these days are so hyper sexualized because of what's on the Internet, that I wouldn't be surprised if it happens more than we realize. I know my son has defiantly shown a sexual side of himself that is way beyond his years, and doesn't hide it as well as I would have at his age. I would suggest you speak with a counsellor or doctor who has experience with teen issues and see what they say. This sounds like a very tough situation. Good luck. *hugs*

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