Kim - posted on 08/16/2012 ( 10 moms have responded )
I kicked my 18 yr old son out 2 weeks ago and I let him come back today providing he sticks to the rules..and that this was his last chance. I feel like I was wrong for giving in so easily. Honestly, I want to get on with my life and I'm sick of feeling responsible for an "adult" that should be carrying his own load..time to grow up! He wants the respect of an adult but quit school and hasn't found a job since..about 6 months? Now I feel like we're starting all over again. I guess my fear is he wont find his wa. I gave him 3 months to find work and nothing. Plus he's always been lazy so I don't think he's trying hard enough. I'm finding myself resentful at him and feel guilty about feeling this way but I cant afford to pay his way anymore.