Rose - posted on 01/23/2010 ( 60 moms have responded )
My husband and daughter are both reactive personalities an dislike each other's behaviors. I have been married for 6 years and this attitiude has worsened to the point that she will not come home and he says if she does, he will leave. I have tried to get them to understand each other and respect each other's differences. The both refuse and blame each other. I have reminded him that he is the adult but he says he has put up with enough and is done with her. I am at a loss. I can't make them compromise and it is tearing me apart. I should not have to choose but my obligations are to my daughter. Suggestions? I just want to run away.