Denise - posted on 06/14/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
He got mad at her and has her convinced that she hurt his heart so he had to hurt her back. She is very emotionally fragile since the death of my nephew (who was run over by a car and killed a year and a half ago) and says that she "can't lose him (the boyfriend), too". She showed up at my door at 4 in the morning covered in vomit and feces and told me that he got mad at her because another boy was trying to kiss her. At the time, she told me that she had vomited and eliminated because she was so upset. I only found out the truth a few days ago. The boyfriend took her car, with her in it (yes, he had been drinking), and forced her to perform oral sex (during which she vomited) and then pulled over and sodomized her at a closed convenience store parking lot while asking her if it hurt and saying that he hopes it does because "that's how his heart is feeling right now". He then drove to his mother's home (where he lives), left her on the street, and told her that he never wanted to see her again. That is when she drove to my house. The following week was an emotional roller coaster with him telling her "you hurt me because I love you so much", "I never want to see your face again", "I just need time to figure it out", "my friends think that I should dump you and just go f... some other girl", "I realize that you mean so much to me"...etc.
I have called the battered women's shelter, the local police, and my daughter's Doctor. Basically, I can't do anything because "she's an adult" and she has to make a report. She is a victim of this manipulative sociopath who is systematically alienating her from all of her family and friends. I can't take it anymore...what should I do?