Sharon - posted on 08/25/2009 ( 3 moms have responded )
GOD HELP ME!!!!
in our home almost everyday there's some form of yelling & screaming.
My partner of 12 yrs & my 14 yr old son don't seem to be getting along & they are both accusing each other of things they have done or said & most times i haven't seen or heard it happen, eg: got hame last night from the grocery store & asked my son if he has done his homework? heading to his room my partner asked him again, & the fight started, son accused my partner (whom he calls DAD ) of giving him the finger cause son had thrown his arms in the air. the race was on for my partner to get to his room & drag him by the collar or scruff of the shirt & shove him to a standing halt & tell him how wrong he is of LYING & ACCUSING him of things he hasn't done. This is not the 1st time this has happened.....(tears :( ) my son called him an A-HOLE, partner in his face again, then the two of us argue as i don't know who to believe, i'm sorry but sometimes i really think he lies to me too (partner). Our two daughters aged 11 & 9 interfere, the 11 yr old heard son calling him an F*&^$ W*&^%%$ so she told tales & growled Son, 9 yr old finds it sad this happens on a regular basis. we had a bit of councilling through a mutal friend of a friend whom was a soo called councilor??? she visited us at home & spoke only to our son & us.
I'm at a loss! Now I'm having dreams where i want to hit & hurt my partner so much!!! Our Son is not a bad kid, he cried so much i kinda felt for him, now i'm being accused of taking his side all the time, & he clearly tells our girls this. i could go on, would love to hear some feed back... PLEASE HELP!!! i think some undetected cameras wouldn't go astray in our home..