Leni - posted on 01/20/2009 ( 13 moms have responded )
Ok what do you think? I know I think it's terrible and my teens said they would never trust me, but a friend of mine downloads all of her daughters msn chats so she can read them. Her dd has no idea. Her reason behing this is that kids say stuff on msn that they normally wouldn't and you, as a parent have to know everything that that child is doing or saying so that you can protect them. I have a pretty open relashionship with my son and he tells me stuff I don't even want to hear sometimes. I trust my kid. Until he proves me wrong, I have to give him that respect.